Ezra and I love getting to travel and tell love stories all over the U.S. So when Mai & Matt booked us for their coastal chic wedding at the Eolia Mansion in Waterford, Connecticut, we knew this destination wedding would be one swoon-worthy affair.
![Coastal chic wedding flatlay](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-50-1024x683.jpg)
![Coastal chic wedding flowers, shoes and jewelry in soft blue and white hues](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-51-1024x683.jpg)
![Mai and Matt frolicking on the beach after getting married at Eolia Mansion](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-78-1024x683.jpg)
![Ceremony recessional with guests blowing bubbles](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-36-683x1024.jpg)
![Wedding portraits at Eolia Mansion gardens on the Connecticut coastline](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-65-683x1024.jpg)
Chapter One | When Mai Met Matt
Mai and Matt’s love story started in the most unlikely of places (our favorite kind)! They met on Craigslist when Matt was looking for a roommate, but he was too shy to make the first move – so Mai did! The first time they met up was during their friends’ monthly seafood night, where they shared their very first kiss.
Currently living in Arlington, Virgina, the couple now have an adorable pup named Kona, who of course played a starring role during their dreamy wedding day at the Eolia Mansion in Harkness State Park.
Chapter Two | Washington DC Adventure Engagement Session
Before their wedding, Mai & Matt decided to have a little adventure engagement session in DC. We love, love, LOVED getting to do a longer adventure session with them! Exploring new places over the span of a day is our favorite way to bond with our couples and create unforgettable memories.
You can check out all the details about our Adventure Sessions here.
Ezra and I road tripped from Ohio to meet Mai & Matt at the Lincoln Memorial for sunrise photos. Once we wrapped up their morning portraits, we stopped for lunch nearby in Georgetown. After lunch downtown, we walked to Dumbarton Oaks Garden. Many of the houses along the way were decorated for Halloween, so we stopped for a fall-inspired stoop shoot along the way.
For a little bit of foreshadowing – Mai chose Dumbarton not only because it is stunning, but Beatrix Farrand was the landscaper for the gardens AND the gardens of her dream wedding venue.
![Engagement session at Lincoln Memorial](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/MG_7655-683x1024.jpg)
![Washington DC Lincoln Memorial dog-friendly engagement session](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/DSC7280-683x1024.jpg)
![Lincoln Memorial engagement photos](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/A738152-683x1024.jpg)
![Engagement photos with the National Mall in the background](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/DSC7182-Edit-683x1024.jpg)
![Sunrise engagement photos at Lincoln Memorial](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/A738283-683x1024.jpg)
![Washington DC dog-friendly engagement session](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/DSC7295-683x1024.jpg)
![Fall-inspired engagement photos sitting on a stoop filled with pumpkins](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/DSC7708-683x1024.jpg)
![Pumpkin front step engagement photos in Georgetown](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/DSC7715-670x1024.jpg)
![Romantic engagement photos at Dumbarton Oaks Gardens](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/A738842.jpg)
![Intimate greenhouse engagement photos at Dumbarton Oaks Gardens](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/DSC7781-683x1024.jpg)
![Warm sunlight shot at Dumbarton Oaks Gardens](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/DSC8024-683x1024.jpg)
The Wedding Destination | Eolia Mansion in Waterfront, Connecticut
A Coastal Chic Wedding Dream
Twelve years ago while Mai was running a 5K as a teenager, she stumbled across the Eolia Mansion that sits on 304 acres of Harkness State Park along the Long Island Sound. From the moment she set eyes on the sprawling estate, it was love at first sight.
Mai knew this was the place she’d marry her best friend some day, and once Matt and her became serious, she booked the venue. Even though they weren’t engaged yet, Mai wasn’t taking any chances on missing out on her dream wedding venue along the Connecticut coast. We’re so glad she did, especially since the venue has a years+ long waitlist!
![Beautiful details and architecture at Eolia Mansion in Harkness State Park](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-61-683x1024.jpg)
![Eolia Mansion rose garden wedding dress photo](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-7-683x1024.png)
![Mai & Matt exploring the grounds of Eolia Mansion](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-15-1024x683.png)
![Eolia Mansion elegant wedding portraits](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-8-1024x683.jpg)
The Little Details Mean Everything
Mat tragically lost his older brother, Thor, while he was on active duty in an EOD unit. To honor his brother, his best man Stephen, gifted him Thor’s memorial coin. It was an incredibly precious detail and a beautiful way for Mat to have his brother with him.
![Groom detail shot flatlay](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-63-683x1024.jpg)
![Groom with his best man in the Eolia gardens](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-87-683x1024.png)
![Meaningful and personalized groom flat lay](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-62-1024x683.jpg)
First Looks at the Cottage & Eolia Mansion Gardens
After getting ready in the coastal cottage available for rent on the property, Mai had her first look with her bridesmaids on the beautifully tended grounds of the cottage near the mansion (where she and the girls got ready).
![Bridesmaids first look with bride outside the cottage at Eolia Mansion](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-11-1-1024x683.jpg)
![Bridesmaids first look wedding idea](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-101-1-683x1024.jpg)
Mai and Matt then had their first look in the Eolia rose garden – the perfect romantic backdrop to see each other for the first time.
![Romantic rose garden first look at Eolia Mansion](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-100-683x1024.jpg)
![First look at Eolia Mansion gardens with the Connecticut coastline in the background](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-53-683x1024.jpg)
![Sweet first look moment in the gardens](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-64-683x1024.jpg)
![Coastal chic wedding portraits at Eolia Mansion in Connecticut](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-13-683x1024.jpg)
![Strolling the Eolia Mansion gardens landscaped by Beatrix Farrand](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-29-683x1024.jpg)
Coastal Outdoor Ceremony
There truly isn’t an inch on the Eolia Mansion grounds that doesn’t take your breath away, and the ceremony was no exception. Mai & Matt said “I do” looking out over the Long Island coastline. As it had rained earlier that morning, the overcast skies made the lighting absolutely stunning during the entire ceremony and reception.
They also had Andante Strings, a live string quartet, play music during the ceremony. It was definitely a highlight when Mai walked down the aisle to their orchestral rendition of Roses by The Chainsmokers.
![Elegant dog-friendly wedding ceremony](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-69-683x1024.png)
![Groom waiting for the ceremony to start with the Connecticut coastline in the background](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-70-683x1024.png)
![Coastal chic outdoor wedding ceremony at Eolia Mansion in Harkness State Park](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-33-1024x683.jpg)
![Bride and groom exchanging vows](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-34-683x1024.png)
![Newlyweds walking back down the aisle together through floating bubbles](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-59-683x1024.jpg)
Cozy Portraits on the Beach
After the ceremony, Mai & Matt snuck off to the beach for intimate wedding portraits. We love anytime we can run off with a couple during the reception to take photos. It’s a beautiful opportunity for them to pause together, and the coastal setting made a truly cinematic moment for them to soak it all in.
![Cinematic wedding portraits on the beach](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-78-1-1024x683.jpg)
![Cozy beach wedding portraits](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-92-683x1024.jpg)
![Romantic coastal chic wedding portraits on the beach at Eolia Mansion](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-94-683x1024.jpg)
![Intimate beach wedding portraits in the sand](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-96-683x1024.jpg)
The Eolia Mansion Reception
Once they finished portraits along the shore, Mai changed into a gorgeous reception outfit, complete with a pearl-encrusted bow that perfectly matched her wedding ceremony veil. The reception was filled with delectable food, wedding toasts, dancing and an ice cream truck for an extra sweet treat.
![Couple admiring the coastal chic place settings](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-4-683x1024.png)
![Elegant place settings featuring soft blue hues, greenery, crystal glassware and natural fiber place mats.](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-67-1024x683.png)
![Candid and intimate Eolia Mansion wedding reception photos](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-10-683x1024.png)
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![Wedding party portraits on the elegant grounds of Eolia Mansion in Harkness State Park](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-48-683x1024.jpg)
![Mai & Matt cozied up at their coastal chic reception table for toasts](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-91-683x1024.png)
![The couple dancing their way into the wedding reception](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-5-1024x683.jpg)
![Wedding reception outfit change for the bride and groom](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-21-1024x683.jpg)
![Candid and sweet moments re-entering the reception after changing outfits](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-97-683x1024.jpg)
![The couple sharing a sweet treat together at the Connecticut Ice Cream Truck](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-1-1024x683.jpg)
![The bride with her parents posing for photos at the Glam Mirror photo booth wall.](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-27-1024x683.png)
![The couple partying the night away on the dance floor at their Eolia Mansion wedding](https://equilibriumphotos.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/37516/2023/07/TheHeflins-22-1024x683.png)
Mai had such a strong vision of her dream destination wedding at the Eolia Mansion in Waterford, Connecticut, and it was an honor to capture every little detail. From sweet moments exploring the mansion’s grounds to the wedding’s coastal chic details, everything came together for the most enchanting day – even the weather. Ezra and I will be reminiscing about their destination wedding for years to come.
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The Wedding Vendors
- Venue: Eolia Mansion at Harkness Memorial State Park | Waterford, Connecticut
- Photography: Equilibrium Photos | Ohio Elopement Photographers
- Videography: TMT Weddings | Connecticut
- Florals: Michele Ford Floral Design | Connecticut
- Catering: Coastal Gourmet Catering | Mystic, Connecticut
- Cake: Cakes by Donna | Connecticut
- Ceremony String Quartet: Andante Strings | Connecticut, Massachusetts & Rhode Island
- DJ: DJ Mike Benoit | Main Event Entertainment
- Hair: Good Vibes Beauty Co. | New England
- Makeup: Amelia Mirabello | Connecticut
- Dress: Brooke’s Bridal & Ball | Fairfax, Virginia
- Tux: The Black Tux
- Alterations: Tang’s Alterations | Manassas, Virginia
- Photo Booth: Glam Mirrors | Connecticut
- Tent Decor: EZ Occasions | Connecticut & New England
- Ice Cream Truck: Connecticut Ice Cream Trucks